Life is more than what we can get from other people. It has to do with love, joy, peace, happiness. It is not taking advantage of a situation because of a weakness or flaw in someone else’s reasoning skills. Not everyone is equal. Everyone is different, and with differences come challenges. That is what life is all about, to meet those challenges head on and to grow into better versions of ourselves.
I did not always feel this way.
If anything, I was one of those people who would swoop into a jammed parking lot, steal the last empty spot from an old lady so that I could finish my own Christmas shopping.
I was the guy who would take advantage of a two-for-one sale, going back to the store several times to make many purchases of the same product, in spite of quantities being limited.
And I was the jerk who did not believe in garbage cans. The city made sidewalks more than for walking. At least that is what I believed.
But, I have grown. I have matured. What seemed so important years ago does not seem so much that now. With a change in heart comes an appreciation for the simple things in life.
I so love the way an ice cream cone twirls at the top when ordering it from a truck in the middle of summer.
I cannot get enough of the clouds dancing along the edge of the sky while playing a game of “Guess What I Am”.
I look forward to sitting at the table with my family, talking about how everyone’s day went, and discovering something I did not know before.
My nightly routine involves reading God’s word as a way to ease my mind of the day’s troubles.
And nothing compares to holding someone I love in my arms. Nothing comes close.
Is that all there is to it?
Well, yes. I look at the little things, and they are the things that make me happy. That is how I am able to appreciate what I have. As long as I keep the little things in mind, life goes a whole lot smoother.
I would not want it any other way.