A few weeks ago, my wife and I left the northern climes of our small town and travelled to Mississauga, Ontario for our annual getaway. No kids. No family. And no responsibility. Just the two of us. We settled on a small inn off the highway where close by we had access to a huge commercial center featuring a movie theater, restaurants and a mini golf place. We were in our element. For Freedom Friday, let me tell you how it went.
For those of you who may not know, we’ve had our share of travelling and this time around, we wanted to stick around our own province. Nothing quite compares to exploring the surrounding region and having fun doing so.
Arriving at the inn, we unpacked quickly and that evening, we headed to an all-you-can-eat sushi bar. My wife’s never been to one and it was an experience for her. I knew exactly what we were in for, so I walked her through it. This particular sushi bar provided customers with iPads at the table to order their food. The uninitiated would find the food choices overwhelming. Folks, the point of a sushi bar is not to order everything in one shot, but to experience a relaxed atmosphere while eating at a leisurely pace. Customers tend to make the common mistake when they enter an all-you-can-eat restaurant to load their plates and then they have a table full of food they can’t finish. Guess what? The restaurant charges for leftovers. Surprise.
I’m happy to say, I taught my wife to pace herself. We ordered light at first, going for small avocado salads, headed for medium dishes such as maki and sushi, then we hit the big dishes like Salmon Teriyaki and chicken fried rice. By the time we were done, three hours had passed and we were ready for a movie. We took a long walk talking about our life together, the kids, our family, then went to see the new X-Men: Days of Future Past on opening night in 3D. Wow. Wow is all I can say. Great movie.
For all you romantics out there, yes, we held hands and yes, we snuggled.
The next morning, the inn provided a free continental breakfast where we had a chance to relax without the stress of being somewhere, having to do something or needing to finish quickly. We—wait for—took it easy. I’ll tell you something, whenever I hit vacation mode, something happens in me that always makes me want to sleep. A switch in me says, “Jack’s in vaca mode, time to shut down the factory.” I’m quite all right with it, too, since my wife’s the same way. It feels as if all the stress washes away like a blanket pulled from a bed.
Later that morning I hopped into the pool and had a nice one-hour swim, and followed it up with a long stay in the Jacuzzi. When I got back to our room, we hit a local Greek restaurant and talked for a long time about our future. I don’t know about other couples, but for us, we’re always thinking about what’s next in our lives. We purposely have long conversations mapping our destiny with little interference from anyone’s influence. If this is what freedom is, then I’m all for it.
After the restaurant, we went to see the new Godzilla movie in 3D. You can tell we’re avid moviegoers. Boy, were we surprise. Incredible movie in 3D is all I can say. By the way, the theater that afternoon was, how should I say, ice cold, it felt like I had walked into a meat packing plant. Do theaters really have to be that cold? But maybe it was me. After all, I had a T-shirt and shorts on, but I’m not complaining.
Yes, more snuggle time with my baby.
That evening we stayed in and had fun playing video games together on my tablet while sitting on the bed watching TV. Nothing beats that alone time I spend with my wife away from the stresses of the world.
The next morning, we woke up late, had breakfast, packed our things and left the inn refreshed and feeling great about the coming months. From there, we ended up at the glow in the dark mini golf place. My wife cleaned up the game. Eighteen holes of pure defeat for me as she pounded par or strokes under par to blow me away. She had her game face on and totally trashed my game. Gosh, I’m proud of her.
From there, we popped over to the same sushi bar from a couple of nights ago and feasted for hours until we left to pick up the kids that afternoon. By the time we got home, we had all we could do to keep from going to bed early. That’s when I knew we had an incredible time.
Writing this today, I can’t wait until our next getaway. I’m not sure where we’re going, but we’re certainly again going to have the time of our lives.
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I can happily follow the blog of a man who goes away with his wife, watches X-men ( I agree WOW) and eats some damn good looking sushi.
Sounds like a fantastic get away, and much needed break.
Great idea! What a wonderful, perfect, relaxing weekend. We haven’t done something like this since our kids were little. I can certainly see the benefits after reading your post! 🙂
I’m glad that you two had a great time! 🙂
Sounds like a wonderful trip. I like all the eating and movie going. Sounds like you both are very well suited to each other.
Thanks very much, John!
Travis and I are a little different. while we typically go somewhere for our anniversary we mostly build things. whenever the kids are gone for a week or even two days, we tear something down a remodle it. it’s our thing 🙂
I think that’s a great idea, Krissy! We’re about to do the same thing in the coming weeks with the old shed. I’m looking forward to having something new in the backyard!
That is so sweet! We try to go somewhere once a year at least. It’s important to do things like that and it also works to show the kids that you are still a couple and not just parents. I think things like that stay with them as they get older and have their own relationships.
Totally agree, Melissa. I know it stuck with me when I was a kid, and I wanted my kids to have some awesome memories not only with us, but with others, too!
You and your wife inspire me, now I am secretly plotting to tempt my husband to a few days “away”.
I have been a strong supporter of vacationing near home ever since I lived in St. Louis for a year and kept meeting local people who hadn’t been to the Funny Bone or the Arch or a Cardinals game, then people heard I was from Maine and asked if I had ever been to…. and I hadn’t.
The sushi looks delicious. Glad you had a good time
Aw, sounds perfect, Jack. So glad you and your lady get to go play together. 🙂 Purposeful relaxation is a wonderful thing. 🙂