I’ve sat here for the past fifteen minutes trying to come up with a witty and funny intro to last weekend’s getaway I spent with my wife in Barrie, Ontario. But the more I tried, the less I accomplished. I suppose trying too hard, if that is possible, makes for an unproductive experience. In some ways, I can see why.
Welcome to my Freedom Friday post where I talk about whatever comes to mind. And what’s on my mind at this moment is last weekend. What did we do that was so special? My wife and I loaded the car, dropped the kids at friends, and spent three days away from it all. We enjoyed a mini-vacation, if you will, without the cares and worries of life’s little inconveniences. You know the ones. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, dusting, shopping, mowing the lawn, washing the windows, picking up and dropping off the kids to their activities, and a myriad of life’s other chores we do, but have only so many hours in the day to accomplish.
When we arrived at our hotel last Friday night, I unloaded the car while my wife took care of our room. The first thing that’d happened, which set the tone for the rest of our stay, was my wife’s chitchat with the desk clerk led to a free upgrade to the room. There was a lacrosse tournament happening that same weekend, and rather than have us stuck on a floor with partying teenagers, the desk clerk booked us in the honeymoon suite complete with a king-size bed and Jacuzzi. When I say Jacuzzi, I mean hot-tub-in-the-center-of-the-room Jacuzzi. It gets better.
Our hotel was close to the highway, making it easy for us to travel from one activity to another. Most of our time, however, we spent in the throes of relaxation. The word downtime comes to mind. It doesn’t even come close to describing what we experienced. Believe me, a weekend without the kids does not inspire a time of planned recreation.
Inside the hotel room, we dropped our bags on the spot and left for dinner. We have a special restaurant we visit whenever we’re in town called Ling’s Cuisine. I can describe their food as delicious, yet somehow the phrase needs some work. Beyond delectable? How’s that for a description? Their atmosphere is quiet, and their service is perfect. Their servers know their menus, having the ability to recommend plates and understanding their ingredients. For instance, I didn’t know what tobiko was until our server said they were flying fish eggs. The eggs don’t fly, it’s the fish that breed the eggs that fly. Good to know, anyway. I ordered a couple of plates of salmon maki while my wife chose a Miso (vegetable) soup and Salmon Teriyaki. As we enjoyed our dinner, my wife nodded regarding the couple behind me. They, too, were enjoying time alone. They had a full bottle of white wine with their meal. By the end of the evening, it was all gone. She smiled at me knowing where they were going.
Our Saturday consisted of waking up late and heading to the pool. The water was cold yet manageable. I spent most of my time in the hot tub gazing out the ceiling windows into the clouds. One cloud in particular caught my attention. It was the puffy white kind set on a crystal blue background. It shifted. First, it turned into a genie, then it became a cowboy. As the minutes passed, it became apparent it was disappearing before my eyes. It sparked a thought. Our lives are like the clouds, passing so fast that one day we’ll also disappear into nothingness. One day we’re here and the next—poof—we’re gone. Well, that was the morbid portion of my post. I also do song and dance on demand and recite funny limericks.
That afternoon we headed to Boston Pizza, a Canadian gourmet pizza franchise that also specializes in serving gluten-free pizza. My wife was happy, and as I said once before—happy wife, happy life. This time our conversation centered on how nice it was not to have any responsibilities for the weekend. Both of us had dopey eyes for most of the meal. Boy, we thought, we should do this more often. Amazing what alone time will do. You young parents will know what I mean when you’re away from the kids for some time. It’s like a natural sedative.
For our Saturday night entertainment, we enjoyed that wonderful Jacuzzi and went back to Ling’s. Good things go a long way. You know, it’s funny. We were driving to the restaurant and I notice a biker in all his glory on this amazing-looking bike. I mentioned this to my wife, telling her how much I admired it. She said, “Yeah, Jack, but it isn’t a Harley.” I thought, who is this woman who I’ve known for almost half my life. Is there something she hasn’t told me about her past? How does she know what a Harley looks like?
On Sunday, we wanted to head over to see the new Star Trek movie Into the Darkness, but we had the complimentary breakfast in the guest lounge downstairs, and went back upstairs in the serenity of silence instead. Without a doubt, we got our money’s worth from our room. The explanation I have for you there is when you get free time away with the person you love most in this world, you don’t want to spend it watching a movie. So we sat next to each other on the bed reading.
And, as the cliché goes, all good things must come to an end. We got back home late that evening after having treated the kids to the Sushi Garden. I guess you can say we all enjoyed a sushi-filled weekend.
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Have you ever gone on a getaway weekend with your love? What did you end up doing?
10 thoughts on “Weekend Getaway”
Sounds like you two had a great time. I didn’t find your cloud-life metaphor depressing at all. I thought it seemed pretty appropriate to what you were doing all weekend – enjoying the moment. Being fully present and enjoying the little things (i.e. reading with your wife, a nice swim, the fact that your wife can still surprise you) is the best way to make the most of life as it flies by us so quickly.
My wife’s affinity to motorbikes sort of threw me for a loop. I’m okay, now. But for a moment there, I wondered! 😉
Sounds like a great fun and delicious time! Thank you for sharing.
I just opened my inbox and I don´t know why I then opened your post. I feel miserable now, I just got my “Friday drunk day” and now back to work and salivating after seeing the sushi photos. Real cool vacation! Nice that your wife talked her way out of staying in the same floor with a bunch of drunken kids, could´ve turned out much worst. Aaaa, woman, can´t live with them can´t live without them.
So awesome that you guys were able to get away for a weekend! My husband and I are overdue for some relaxation.
Ling’s Cuisine looks amazing. Sushi is one of our favorites as well. I’m fairly certain we could eat it every day for a year and not tire of it.
It’s fantastic to see married couples who just enjoy hanging out together. That’s what makes for a happy marriage, I think.
Thanks, Kaela! I’d say go for the getaway, they’re wonderful retreats from the everyday hustle and bustle. They certainly raise the appreciation level in any marriage.
Same here with sushi. It’s one of the healthiest foods on the planet and I can’t get enough of it. YUM! 😉
Nice shots and it sounds like a great little getaway.
Spousal Unit and I used to spend hours reading on Sunday afternoons before the advent of the offspring units. It was lovely. This sounds like a fantastic weekend for you and The Missus. Thank you sharing it. 🙂
Does Spousal Unit come with a manual, too? 🙂
Alas, no, but I imagine I could write one. But who’d need to read it? 🙂